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Thoughts
about Places
Dubai,
2000
How They Serve The Ham in Hawaii
The Hong Kong Diaries
Thoughts
Without Boundaries
Last
Thoughts of 2000
Thinking About Pakistan
Women's Day - The Sad Truth
Oh Hansie
The Rain
The Rose and the Desert
Cup
of Memories
Truth
& Freedom - Moments On A Crowded Planet
Signs.
But Of What??
Thoughts
of love & longing
Camilia
The BlueGrass and The Blood
Smile, Gone, Trust, Friend
The Beginning
The End
The Death
Without You
You Made Me Feel
The Morning
Coffee Machine Blues
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When
I was a kid, I wanted to be Pele. In fact I wanted to be everything.
The most difficult decisions I made was whether to be Pele or Gavaskar.
A decision made considerably simpler by the fact that owing to the
lack of appropriate exposure I never wanted to be Amitabh Bachchan.
In my later years I wanted to be Charlie Chaplin and Jacques Crousteau.
This came with the heart-crunching realisation that I would never
be Boris Becker. In my twenties I was mostly caught up being myself.
Fortunately I have few apologies to make on that score.
Of
course as a deprived child in the pre MTV era, my senses were not
battered into a mush of dance videos with ½ second cuts that
roughly coincide with the trends in attention span. The park was
a playground and not a hotel. The little Casio digital watch was
the coolest gadget in the universe. Agony in those days meant scraping
half the skin off your leg, it did not mean not getting your favourite
VJ to read out your letters of love.
There
comes a point when you realise with an embarrassing poignancy that
the sporting heroes of the day are younger than you are. When I
was leaving college, Tendulkar and Leander Paes were struggling
with their math tutors. Heck, when I was hanging up my soccer boots,
Michael Owen was learning to tie his laces. Anyhow, I reached and
crossed that inflection point of ambition with a fair amount of
equanimity.
Over
the last few years, I have been fortunate to get exposed to a quadrillion
new bits and bytes of new experiences. Some planned and enjoyable.
Some not. I have grown to think of the Internet as a life support
system. Given a choice, I would check mail on the way to brushing
my teeth in the morning. Sometimes I feel my online personality
is evolving in entirely different ways than my real life personality,
which has given up trying to develop and is focusing on preventive
maintenance.
Over
the past few months, I have wanted to be, Pico Iyer, Tom Robbins
and Jeff Bezos. Do we progress or merely change? Half my life is
over and I havent changed the world yet. It bothers the hell
out of me. The assorted debris of things that I have been can fit
into a small little matchbox of achievements.
Just
today I was reading about Pele on the CNN site. He has been named,
by both Time and CNN, as the athlete of the century. Did you know,
he was not allowed to leave Brazil to play for an Italian club because
he was declared a national treasure? Or that when he visited Africa,
they halted the Nigeria-Biafra conflict to institute a two-day cease-fire?
Or even that recently when some people tried to rob him at gun point,
they recognised him and apologised instead?
They
say every kid around the world who plays soccer still wants to be
Pelé. He once said, "I have a great responsibility to
show them not just how to be like a soccer player, but how to be
like a man."
You
know what? I still want grow up to be Pele.
31st
Dec 1999
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