The
following are questions asked by parents and answers given by some DCS
students who have gone through the 8th and 10th grade health class.
These interviews were conducted as a result of frustrated parents not being
provided a detailed health curriculum with assignments currently used to
find out if the content taught and discussed was in line with the community
values. Some answers below are paraphrased or summarized.
Topics that stood out
more to those that went through 10th grade are euthanasia, abortion, and
drugs.
I hate it with the abortion
issue how she makes it sound like it's okay and it is not a human being
that you are dealing with. I am extremely against it and I cannot
stand to deal with people who act that way towards abortion. She
makes us have debates on that kind of thing and you don’t get to choose
what side you’re on and it makes me furious. I felt the same way
about euthanasia. When it came to drugs or sex, the teacher made
them feel like it doesn’t matter what you do, just so long as you take
precautions.
Did the teacher ever make
the statement that what is said in class stays in class?
Yes, often.
Were you encouraged strongly
to talk to your parents about questions that arose out of class?
No, we were not encouraged
to talk to our parents. We actually had to stand, raise our right
hand, and take an oath not to talk about anything that happens in health
outside of class. She encouraged us to talk to her personally and
to share with the class. If you had an opinion that was different
than hers she would get right in your face and ridicule you in front of
everyone.
How did you interpret
the oath?
We thought that it meant
we could not tell anyone including our parents.
Why do you think the teacher
did this?
She said she wanted a safe
environment for us to be able to share. It seemed like she was saying
that it was safer to tell her things than it was our parents. It
was confidential and we were encouraged to talk openly.
Was abstinence stressed
in the health class?
It was brought up a couple
times, but it definitely was not stressed by either the teacher or Student
Medical Services. The teacher stressed protecting yourself if you
are going to be sexually active. She forced everyone to answer the
question if they would have sex and do you think about it every day.
Everyone in the class had to answer the question in front of the rest of
the class. She did the same thing when she had students explain how
to use different kinds of protection.
What role did Student
Medical Services have in health class?
Student Medical brought
in condoms and other forms of birth control and took them out of the packages
and passed them around the class. One of the types of protection
was called a dental dam and it is placed in the mouth when giving oral
sex. They told us that we could come to them and get any protection without
our parents knowing. Student Medical also brought in a slideshow
about STD’s that had very graphic pictures. In the class the teacher
called on students and had them explain how they thought things were used.
She nicknamed a student because the student didn’t know the meaning of
the word "genitals." (Note: one student said that Student Medical
Services was supposed to come in, but didn’t, so the teacher did the presentation
of contraception/protection.
Was there anything that
you liked about health class?
Yes, the heart rate thing.
And the riding around.
What did you dislike about
health class?
a. We had to write our
own obituary. We could use our imagination and we could be any
age, married, kids, etc.
b. We had to plan a funeral.
We had to come up with a name for the person who died and find the prices
for things like embalming, caskets, flowers, etc. Some people had
problems planning the funeral because they had recently lost family members,
but they still had to complete the assignment. It bothered many other
people who had not had anyone die recently.
c. The teaching about
suicide. The teacher showed us which way to cut your wrist if
we were serious about committing suicide. She said you should cut
straight down instead of across. She said if you were not serious
then you would cut your wrists across. She said if you did small
cuts across the wrist you were most likely just wanting attention.
d. We had to go on the
Internet and look up an STD. We had to find the most detailed
and grossest pictures of penises and vaginas that we could. We looked
it up in the school media center. There were elementary students
in the library at the time and there were middle school students that saw
some of the pictures. We had to share all the pictures with each
other in class.
Why didn’t the teacher
just bring picture samples of her own to class?
I don’t know. Ask
the teacher.
What was the purpose of
planning a funeral?
We think the purpose of
it was to show how expensive a funeral is.
Did you have any other
homework assignments that involved the Internet?
Yes. Another one was
to look up a drug to find information on it such as the cost and where
you can buy it. We found a recipe for the drug rhp (a date-rape drug)
on the Internet.
Is it true that in health
class, students were made to plot out a rape trial?
Yes. The teacher asked
people to volunteer to be the rapist and the victim. If people did
not volunteer she picked someone. They had to come up with detailed
stories as to how they got raped and the rapist had to come up with an
alibi. Also, there were attorneys and witnesses. There was
also a jury and judge that listened to the stories and decided if the rapist
was guilty or not guilty. One girl was chosen as the victim and the
rapist came up with the thought that she was a prostitute. Then,
afterwards, outside of class, other people were calling her a prostitute
in real life. She was so upset she cried over it.
Did you watch any movies
in class?
Yes. The teacher had
us watch a really bad movie, which upset a lot of us about a boy who went
to a juvenile center, and when he came back he was picked on very bad and
he tried to hang himself.
Then, he became friends with a bad group of kids and they put one jock
in a barrel full of gasoline and shot through the barrel. Then, you
could see the blood squirting out of the barrel. He also wrote a
play called “Bang, Bang, You’re Dead” which was about him killing every
one around him. Then him and his friends made a bomb but he fell
in love with this girl and went against his friends and stopped them from
setting the bomb off. Another movie was about birthing. It
showed sperm swimming and actual childbirth.
What was the purpose of
the movie "Bang, Bang, You’re Dead"?
We thought it was about
preventing murder/suicide, but the blood squirting out the holes still
upsets us. We wish we had never seen the movie.
After having gone through
the health class, do you think your peers were more sexually interested
and/or active?
Yes! It seemed like
that was all students were talking about. Students were becoming
more interested in becoming sexually active. There are many examples,
but the students did not feel comfortable talking about them.
Were the emotional or
mental consequences ever discussed as a result of engaging in sexual activity?
No.
Was there anything else
that you wanted to talk about?
Yes. Masturbation.
When a student asked a question if it is safe to masturbate, it was presented
as being okay to do, but you need to be careful. The teacher told
a story about a girl using a broomstick to masturbate. When her mother
walked in it startled her and the broom handle went in too far and it caused
her to bleed to death.
Do you think that things
shared in class by students were appropriate?
No! Often kids were
gossiped about and picked on outside of class. The classroom is not
the place to be sharing personal facts about yourself in front of other
boys and girls.
Was a good chunk of the
time given to the topic of unhealthy eating habits, like trans fats and
high fructose corn syrup and the resulting consequences like diabetes that
is becoming an epidemic?
There was some discussion
about eating habits but very little. They did not remember any discussion
about diabetes. The 8th grade class does not remember talking about
healthy eating habits at all. They also did not talk about keeping
clean or proper food handling.
|