Biphobia
What
is a bisexual?
Bisexual
Oxford Dictionary
A very clinical approach!! Basically it's someone who finds their own sex and the opposite sex attractive :-)!
What is
bi-phobia?
Bi-phobia is when
you negatively regard those who like both sexes!
Where
and when does this happen?
All the time and
its not just straight people! Even gays, lesbians and transgenders get disapprove
of people who are attracted to both sexes.
Why?!
There's no need
– It is a valid sexuality. A bisexual is no different from anybody they
are just a normal person who want to enjoy life.
Top Bisexual
Myths
1. Bi's just don't
exist!
... and the survey says ...
err no!!
That's like saying there is no
such thing as a gay man, lesbian women, transgender or straight person! There
are more Bi's than completely gay or lesbian people!
2. It's just a phase! They just don't know what they want!
Again untrue! Yes some people
who start off bisexual and then decide to be fully straight, gay, lesbian,
or transgender! Though some people are just attracted to both sexes! It is
not always a phase full stop!
3. Bi's are just sex mad!
Okay - so your sexual habits
are defined by your sexuality! Everyone's sexual habits are them, defined
by what they want from life.
4. Bi's can't cope with a relationship
Untrue!!!! They are just
the same as everyone! Some Bi's are celibate. Some have just one partner.
Others have more than 1 ... just the same as monosexuals!
5. Bisexual men will always leave you for women, bisexual women will always
leave you for a man!
No! It's easy to blame sexuality
when breaking up than look at the reason why!
6. Bi's spread HIV and STI's
No unsafe sex does - golden rule
safe sex rules !
7. Bi's are closeted married swingers
and people!
Yes some are but isn't there everywhere?
There are many closeted gays, lesbians, transgenders, as well as unhappy straight
people!
8. Bi is a fashion statement -
just a big cop out!
Actually it can be harder being
Bi ... they have the same discrimination as gay, lesbians, and transgenders,
and can also be discriminated against by gay, lesbian and transgender people!
As for a fashion statement, just go to H&M, you are who you are!!
9. Bi's have there own stereotypes!
There are stereotypes for everyone
- forget them! Everyone is normal in there own peculiar way!
10. Bi's are nicer people!
No they are human just as you and
me! They are people capable of being nice, kind, fun, moody, boring, inconsistent,
annoying, etc ... just the same as the whole World!
Bi's and Sex
Bi's are just the same as everyone else...
Basically safe sex for all!!! And safe sex is:
"Not allowing blood, semen, or virginal fluids to pass from one person's body to another's!"
Oral Sex
Use dental dams, and flavoured condoms!
Penetrative sex:
Use condoms and lube!
Basic advice for all to follow whether you are bisexual, lesbian, transgender, gay, straight, whatever!!
