Tomi Ma'am


Observer

History Lesson

re-typing via shevette...

* smiles*

On or about January 15th of this year I was sitting in a virtual chat room talking with other Dom’s and several sub’s. All at once this boy called dreamslave fell into my lap.

It was one of his first times visiting this virtual chat room. He was quite the novice and looking to explore his submissive side online. He immediately started talking to one of the other Domme’s and I started teasing him. I knew the other woman and she was not a dominant. Just, as her name implied, a tease.

Well for the next few times I saw this boy in the chat I would tease him unmercifully. So bad in fact that he told me later that he almost didn’t come back after our first meeting. I had him come sit with me a couple of times during those first 4 days.

On January 20th I had him come sit with me and we had been talking in whisper mode to each other for perhaps 3 hrs when this other Domme came in and basically plopped down in his lap.

I asked him, in whisper, if the two of them had something going on together and he said no they didn’t he was talking with her because he was doing some work for the site owner and she was the go between.

I asked him again and again he said no he did not have anything going on with her.

(he did not realize it but She did have plans for the two of them..) Within a few minutes of her arrival he asked me if W/we could go someplace and "play" as he put it.

My first thought was that the boy wanted to cyber.

I said fine but that it had to be on a different virtual site as I did not "play" as he put it at home. And no I did not intend to cyber with him. LOL he didn’t know that if he had wanted to start cybering with me that I would have poofed right off and left him hanging in cyber space. Well did I get a pleasant surprise or what?

He actually did want to play and not cyber.

W/we had a lot of fun at this one site and ended up at my private chat site. To this day I can not tell you exactly what happened or even why or how it happened.

Observer

All I can say for sure is there was some kind of magic between U/us that is still very much there. But before he had to leave to get ready for work he was wearing my virtual collar. W/we spent over 13 hours online together that day. Six months and 18 days later he boarded a plane in his homeland for a 6,000+ mile journey to me. I remember well the days before his flight. He was flying United and the Friday before United had announced here that they were canceling hundreds of flights.

I did not tell dream about it, as I did not want to cause him to worry needlessly.

But I had my fingers crossed the whole time that his was not one of them. On the day he was to leave he called me from the airport in his homeland.

"Mistress, he said, I have some bad news." (needless to say my heart sank at that point). He went on to say that his flight was delayed 4 hours and it was very unlikely that he could make his connection in DC to get to me that day.

He and one of the air lines representatives had tried but to no avail to get him on another plane that would get him to DC in time to catch his connection to me.

He said that they were going to keep trying till he boarded a flight to the US.

I had given him the 800-Collect number to call me as soon as he got to DC.

Alas for U/us he ended up spending the night in Washington. But one thing good came of that.

He was at least rested somewhat when he got here the next day.

Virtual goes to real time

O/our first meeting at the airport.

That is a day that will live in my memory forever.

Needless to say I was somewhat apprehensive about the meeting.

Not so much on my part because I couldn’t care less what the outside package was (and trust me its goooooood).

I only know that I was and am very much in love with the man that is my submissive. The whole person that I got to know through countless emails and ICQ and hours spent online together not to mention his numerous phone calls to me in real time and our countless hours on buddyphone while in virtual chat. My concern was that he would take one look at me, turn and run back on the plane hollering "take me home!" Well let me tell you it didn’t happen like that.

Observer

There she is...


I was standing kind of off to the side when he came out of the walkway from the aircraft.

W/we had exchanged pictures so he knew what I looked like. Have you ever seen a thousand-watt light bulb when it’s lit? Well when he spotted me he lit up like a thousand-watt light bulb. He came to me and I placed a 6’ long black silk tie around his neck, gave him the 3 customary kisses (well almost.. the 3rd one hit his lips and not his cheek.. * weg *) I hugged him, whispered to him welcome to America baby and told him that there were more tie’s waiting for him at home.

I can tell you that I have never seen a brighter smile on anyone’s face than he had on his at that moment. The ride to my home was a short one as I live only about 20 minutes from the airport.

W/we mostly talked about his delays and the flight it’s self. The one thing I regret is I forgot that I had my handcuffs in the car as I had intended to cuff him for the ride home.

Once at my home he looked around locating my wall of toy’s, wall of eyebolts and all the other ropes and other eyebolts throughout my house.

I could tell he was very nervous about the whole thing.

It was truly a dream come true for him and for the first time I think it scared him to realize that he was in fact in my home finally and about to be stripped and bound and whipped.

I noted his nervousness and told him that W/we would take things slowly at first.

After he had been here an hour or so he seemed more relaxed and I reminded him about something he had said to me about what he would do when he arrived here.

He proceeded to comply with my reminder and again I waited for him to feel more comfortable.

When I felt he was ready for his first experience I took him to one of the many spots in my home where eyebolts prevail. I lightly bound him hand and foot, with the black satin ties, to 4 eyebolt that were strategically placed between my living room and dining room entranceway.

At that moment in time his dreams finally started to become reality for him.

W/we spent the remainder of his week here making his dreams and fantasy’s come true. Mine as well I might add.

* weg * I am quite good at Japanese Rope Bondage as well as other forms of rope bondage and rope is one thing that thrills B/both of U/us.

For him the feel of it on his skin and me the feel of it in my hands as I bind him. He spent one day bound to my comp chair for almost 4 hrs.

Observer


Bound blindfolded and almost gagged.


(gags are something I do not use for safety reasons, I prefer just duck tape over a mouth and will not place anything inside anyone’s mouth because I have heard to many story’s about gag’s going wrong). Also because this was dream’s first walk in reality I made sure that he was able to reach the knots and untie himself when he wanted out of the bondage he was in. Not so the next time he comes to me, he will have a hard time getting himself free I can promise him that. It was funny because he knew by the placement of the knots that I had deliberately made it easy for him to escape. But I did not want to cause him to become frightened or to loose trust in me with this his first experiences in bondage.

Sometimes slower is better.

I do know that he was very overwhelmed by the experience but also know that he loved it. I can tell you from where I sit that he is truly a dream come true for me.

He is the sweetest, most loving sub that I have ever met with an impish side to balance him out.

He the single most brightest spot in my life. For those of you who know the poem "How do I love thee" by Elizabeth Barrette Browning you will under stand whey I say.

I love him to the depth and breadth and height my soul can reach. (For anyone interested I can send them a copy of that most beautiful poem via email.) Will W/we have real time together again?

W/we are both hoping for that sometime in the not too distant future. Time and money are a big factor. Not like he lives in the states or has one of those jobs that allows him endless paid holidays.

But if all things go well he will return to me sooner rather than later and will have a longer stay next time.

I look forward to going to the airport again and bringing my sweet dream back home with me once more.

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I would very much enjoy any first meeting stories that you might wish to share with me as well as visitors to shevette’s site.

I know my story is a happy one and there has to be many more like this out there.

I also know that there are many horror stories and would like for you to share them as well.

Although we present a very loving approach to D/s lifestyle we do know that there are people who have experienced not such loving scenes or meetings and we really would like to hear about those as well.

It’s kind of taking the bitter with the better so to speak. It will also help others to share the happy times as well as the not so happy ones with U/us.

Looking forward to hearing from many of you and sharing your experiences. I send much love to each and everyone who happens upon this site. Reaching out and giving you the perfect gift, a big hug. One size fits all and no one minds if it’s returned.


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