A PATH TO FOLLOW
(For the Custodial Parent Fighting for Child Support)
Hi. I'm Mary. Let me share my story.
When I was growing up, as many of you can relate, I dreamed of marrying the perfect man and having a couple of children and living the American dream...a home filled with love and laughter that would be "forever." Yes, it did start out that way.
Then "real life" took over, and things changed, as they often do. The husband and father no longer wanted to be "either." We all know what comes next..lawyers, courts, and endless worries and fears. How would the kids and I survive?? How could we do it?? We were alone. Sure, there was family and friends...but bottom line...we were alone.
The court ordered support, yes...but barely enough to live......if he even paid it. My job didn't pay enough to pay all of the necessary bills, so I had to go on Welfare for awhile. I was in a scary place...once upon a time I was cared for. The case worker said they would make him pay. She said that each and every month for 6 months. Once, he was put in jail for contempt, but still wouldn't live up to his obligation. He had no worries, no cares, as long as he stayed hidden, and free.
We're doing great now. I pulled myself up and got a better job and off Welfare. Things have gotten better for us. The kids suffered the most. It's because of that reason that I wanted to do something to help other custodial parents obtain what is theirs. The "system" can only do what they are "trained" to do, but that is far from enough, let alone adequate. I now operate my own business helping custodial parents, but more importantly, the kids, obtain their child support. One day I came across a website while surfing the web. I read the material presented and decided...."Why Not..?" Through an organization called P.O.S.E. I now work from my home using my computer and telephone and enjoy the satisfaction of not only making money, but helping others.
If you're a custodial parent needing help obtaining your support or maybe you have some spare time and would like to be a part of this program, take a moment and see what is involved in the process or email me. By the way, I was able to obtain this personal web site through this program. Why not take a moment and drop me a note. I'd love to hear from you.
In 30 years, it won't matter how nice a car you had.
In 30 years, it won't matter how big your house was.
In 30 years, it won't matter what Clubs you belonged to.
In 30 years, it won't matter where you vacationed.
If you affect even ONE child today..that's what matters...in 30 years.