to become a kajira is

SIMPLE

• all that is expected is total obedienceQUOTE;

  "What is the duty of a slave girl' I inquired. 'Absolute obedience' she said, frightened. 'What are you?' I inquired. 'A slave girl,' she said. 'What is your duty?' I asked. 'Absolute obedience,' she cried out."
  ---Hunters of Gor, p 258

• nothing else you have been taught matters if given a command from a Free.

• total obedience simple
• know that even on days you do everything right...you may still be punished...WHY? you ask...WHY is immaterial...a Free chooses to do so.. you are slave you lose...Quote 

  "One of the utilities of a slave, of course, is to occasionally serve as the helpless object upon which the Master may vent his dissatisfaction, his frustration or anger. Too, of course, they may serve many other related purposes, such as the relief of tensions, to relax oneself and even to calm oneself for clear thought."
  ---Magicians of Gor, p 134

    
• everything you are given may be at anytime taken back or away
• if you wish to speak ...beg to speak,every action you wish now to take ...permission must be sought from a Free Quote:                            It is common,' I said, `for a slave to request permission to speak.' 'Forgive me, Masters!' she wept. 'You are men! You are men! A slave begs forgiveness!"
  ---Magicians of Gor, p 226
• you may be told to speak your thoughts or opinion...for Men often talk to their slaves...this does not MEAN anything you say changes anything ...He will decide...
• you may feel wronged by a punishment ...here is a big part of becoming a kajira...as a kajira you will accept the punishment ...with grace and dignity...you will seek to know how to improve your service learning a lesson ...that above all you must at all times be pleasing or there is a consequence...
• another thing you must learn is this,you may be trained in skills ...in how to lessons...you may become very accomplished at many things...as a kajira you will never ever argue with a Free that chooses something other than what you have been taught...you will obey swiftly...if an argument arises between two Free you will kneel quietly awaiting Their decision on how to continue...kajira do not involve themselves in Free business unless ordered to...
• you may often be praised for a lovely serve or dance ...slave girls love compliments its part of what makes them slave...though here on gor dont expect them ...dont dare sulk if you dont get one ...dont dare judge the Free because someone didnt flatter you "you are slave...nothing is owed you"
• baring your soul...you as a kajira may keep nothing from the Master...nothing from the Free...you are allowed no inhibition,you must be beautiful,intelligent,alluring,capable
• everything you are is because the Free allows you to be it...QUOTE:

• "A slave girl is not permitted to conceal anything from her master. She is his. She must be completely open to him, in all ways, and at all times."
  ---Hunters of Gor, p 84

• a kajira is not a girlfriend...not a fiance and certainly not His FC...dont presume because you wear a personal collar you are anymore important than the lowliest kettle and mat girl...you and she share a bond ...both are slave ,beasts to be bought sold beaten loved raped killed  at a Whim of any FREE...dont try to manipulate a Gorean Man and for the love of all things wonderful dont ever think you can manipulate a FW if you make that mistake ...gor will be extremely harsh for you

• some Masters allow slaves to be shared by Friends and guests Quotes

  "I suddenly hated being a slave! Was this possible? That I should be so casually put, in the liberality of a Gorean host, at the disposal of guests? But of course it was possible! I was only a slave! But why would he do this to me, to me? Was I truly to him only this, only another slave, to be put without a second thought to the purposes of guests, merely another amenity or convenience to them, as night be a napkin or finger bowl, or a comfort, such as a blanket, or and extra cushion for his couch."
  ---Dancer of Gor, p 430

  and some Men prefer not to it is totally up to the Men to decide ...YOU HAVE NO INPUT! you obey period QUOTES:

  "Although Marcus was harsh with his slave, pretending even to a casual and brutal disdain for her, he was also, it might be mentioned, extremely possessive where she was concerned. Indeed, he was almost insanely jealous of her, She was not the sort of girl, for example, whom he, as a host, even at the cost of a certain rudeness and inhospitality, would be likely to hand over for the nightly comfort of a guest. It would be at his slave ring alone that she would be likely to find herself chained."
  ---Magicians of Gor, p 27