WEDDING
BANQUET
6 o'clock in the evening at AAA Seafood Restaurant in Monterey
Park, CA
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Background
Chinese wedding banquets are known for their extravagance and
splendor. In modern Chinese society, the banquet is considered
to be the most important part of the wedding day.
Traditionally, the
groom will pay for everything but nowadays, many couples will
pay themselves. To the parents, the wedding feast is a chance
for them to show off for family and friends by throwing a generous
party as well as announce the marriage of their children. If the
wedding feast turns out well, then the parents will have great
'face'. In the Chinese culture, it's very important to have 'face'
[respect of others].
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- There is usually
an emcee to "host" the evening and alert the guests
to important announcements.
Our emcee will be the Bride's sister, Sanya Namboun.
- Since the wedding
banquet holds such esteem in Chinese culture, the menu is usually
made up of Chinese delicacies - the best that money can buy.
Our banquet will be no different. The menu will consist of the
following:
- Alcoholic drinks,
uncommon in Chinese culture, are considered compulsory at a
wedding banquet, and the wedding couple often drink a toast
at each table of the banquet. The traditional liquor of choice
is cognac, V.S.O.P.
We will be serving Landy V.S.O.P, one bottle at each table.
- Between courses,
the emcee entertains the guests while the wedding party takes
turns playing tricks on the couple (mostly on the groom).
- Like when the
groom picked up the bride from her home that morning, the
bridesmaids play funny games on the groom to make him show
his love for the bride. These games are similar in respect
to the clinking of glasses in the Western culture. The goal
is to make the groom show his love in public.
- Also, between courses,
the bride will leave to change into the traditional cheongsham/
qipao dress.
- The opposite of
Western tradition's receiving line, at the end of the banquet
the bride and groom stand at the door, and speak to everyone
as they leave.
- Rather than gifts,
guests usually give money tucked in red
envelopes.
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