Unmei: Q & A About Lesbianism
Q: What
is a lesbian?
A: female homosexual. a woman loving woman.
a woman involving in a sexual relationship with another woman. a
woman attracted to another woman. eh... go check your own
dictionary for a formal definition. im too lazy to get up and get
mine.
Q: Do
you like men?
A:
well... id take this question thinking that 'like' is used to
mean romantic or sexual way. my answer of course is NO. eh, duh!
i am a lesbian. i only get attracted to women and yes, that means
i only want sex with women. dun take it negatively though. its
not like i hate men or sumthin. its just that... dicks doesnt
turn me on. and yah, i dun care how big it is.
Q: Do
you hate men?
A:
look, the stoooopid thinking that lesbians are man haters has
got to stop. just because im not attracted to guys doesnt mean
that i loathe them. they exist, fine. same as any heterosexual,
the only time i would actually hate a person is if that person
did something wrong to me or to anyone close to mym heart.
Q: Why
do lesbians try to act/dress/look like men?
A: okay. so i guess i am supposed to explain
myself now since i am a butch and butches are the ones being
tagged as the lesbians who are trying to act/dress/look like men.
first off, its not like i want to look like a man. i never wanted
to become a man in the first place. for me, its all about
comfort. skimpy clothes just doesnt make me feel good. i dont act
this way coz i wanna make an impression. my gestures and
interests are naturally inborn. yes, even before i realized i am
a dyke.
Q: Why
did you become/choose to be gay?
A: see
i woke up one morning and thought to myself how fun it would be
to be gay. i would love to experience the discrimination. ya
know, those name callings, people misunderstanding you. to have
people tell you that you are like this coz you're gay. have guys
rape you, have people tell you how sick and perverted you are.
lose the women you love coz her family doesnt want their daughter
associating with a fag... get my point? its fun right?
i didnt choose to feel this way. if there's somthing i have chosen in this dyke life of mine, its setting myself free from my inner homophobic. its choosing not to give a fuck about what other people say and knowing within myself that there's nothing wrong with what i feel. i didnt choose to be gay, i believe i was born this way.
Q: Why
are people gay?
A:
eh... i dunno. who cares anyways? gays exists. deal with it.
if you cant handle it, it aint my problem.
Q: What
do you get out of being a lesbian?
A:
well... if im lucky, id get to have a woman who will love me
and respect me for who i am. id get loving days for as long as
we're together, id have someone i actually want to spend the rest
of my life with, id get great sex and a reason to smile in the
middle of a bad situation. if im unlucky though, id get turmoils
of headaches, damn days that would actually make me wish for the
world to explode into ashes, id grow old alone... cold and
lonely, lousy sex and to just want to fade away and die in the
middle of a bad situation. see how normal it is? doenst really
make a difference if you're straight or gay. we all love. we all
have our own fair share of glory and strife.
Q: I'm
male who is attracted to women. Can I be a lesbian?
A: if you're a guy playing dumb, get outta my
face. i aint got no time for dumb dicks. but if you're a feminine
guy (kindda like the cross-dressing gay guys) who likes women,
then... i dunno how to classify you. ah well, who needs labels
anyways?
Q: Which
one is the man in the lesbian relationship?
A: no one. DUH! we are lesbians, like both
females? haix... but answering this in the level that you would
assume i would sink into, no one is required to play roles in a
lesbian relationship. although there is such a thing as butch and
femme partnership. there are some who prefers that kind of
relationship but there can also be butch to butch and femme to
femme. but then... fuck the labels.