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Mother Please Don't Mourn Me

Mother, please don't mourn for me; I'm still here though you don't see. I'm right by your side each night and day, and within your heart I long to stay. My body is gone, but I'm always near; I'm everything you feel, see or hear. My spirit is free, but I'll never depart, as long as you keep me alive in your heart. I'll never wander out of your sight; I'm the brightest star on a summer night. I'll never be beyond your reach, I'm the moist sand when you're at the beach. I'm the colorful leaves when fall comes around; and the pure white snow that blankets the ground. I'm the beautiful flowers of which you're so fond, the clear cool water in a quiet pond. I'm the first bright blossom you'll see in the Spring; the first warm raindrop that April will bring. I'm the first ray of light when the stars starts to shine, and you'll see that the face in the moon is mine. When you start thinking there's no one to love you; you can talk to me through the Lord up above you. I'll whisper my answer through the leaves on the trees, and you'll feel my presence in the soft summer breeze. I'm the hot salty tears, that flow when you weep; and the beautiful dreams that come when you sleep. I'm the smile that you see on a baby's face, just look for me, Mom, I'm every place.

Author Unknown
October 19, 1995
Our Story

The Lord called our Zachary home to Heaven on October 19, 1995. His death was caused by a condition called a placental abruption. It happens when the placenta tears away from the uterus. There is no known cause for this but there are contributing factors such as high blood pressure and folic acid deficiencies. Our beautiful baby boy was so perfect. He weighed 1 pound 8.4 ounces and was 12 and 1/4 inches long. I had him by natural delivery and his daddy and I were blessed to be able to spend as much time with him as we wanted thanks to the wonderful hospital staff. I had an angel of a nurse who helped me to endure everything and to her we are eternally grateful. Thank you Donna from the bottom of our hearts. You will truly be blessed in heaven for the love and kindness you have shown to us and to others. I also want to thank my Lord and Savior, even though I don't understand why You chose to take Zachary home before we got to share a life with him, I know that You love us and You love him even more than we could, and I know that You will reunite us with him again someday and what a glorious reunion that will be. Take care of him for us please and shower him with kisses and hugs until we can be there to do it ourselves. We have a photo filled with precious memories that we were able to take while we held him and we will cherish those forever. My heart aches and my arms long to hold my baby but I know that he sits with his Grandma Pat in the biggest softest rocking chair heaven has to offer. Someday I will have the chance to once again kiss his precious face and hold both my baby boys in my arms. He also has there with him, (we believe), a brother named Tristin, lost in an early miscarriage at  6 1/2 weeks. The Lord has blessed with us with 2 precious daughters since that time and God has been so good to us. For anyone who may be going through an abruption, prenatal complications, or the death of a child  ... please feel free to email me. I'd be glad to share the information that I have found in my search for answers. If detected early and treated properly an abruption does not have to end the life or another precious child.



The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn His face toward you and give you peace. Numbers 6:24-26
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Below are some very good links about Placental abruptions and also to some grief support groups.
Placental Abruption
March Of Dimes - Placental Abruption
Discovery Health - Placental Abruption
Miscarriage Support
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