Sometimes in life...

we cant always have what we wish for...but we also cant stop trying. there will always be unfufilled destinies to work towards...something we have to give it all we've got to achieve.
you've got to understand that you will never be alone.....in times of happiness or loneliness...there will always be someone out there to share your feelings with you. but if you choose to lock them out of your heart and life, then you WILL be all alone...and then God bless you....


Early childhood blues

are you those type of people who grew up without love or understanding from the grown ups in our life? you're not alone. i was just like you, being neglected and misunderstood.
as the youngest child of three, you could very well understand the competition for attention. however, my brothers are 8 and 9 years my senior, and i've always been the baby of the family. because of our years apart, my brothers have never understood me or made any attempt to. my parents were always so hard at work and was unable to provide me with affection or attention.
i'd always felt alone because i seemed to be so different from everyone else in my family. i loved my pets and found comfort in them, but it was never the same. i hated my parents because they didn't know me, and i felt like an orphan growing up with strangers.
what i didn't understand was that my parents had to work like hell to provide for my brothers and me. and i've been so lucky having a roof over my head and food to put into my stomach.
there are many people out there who are real orphans...who have no home to go to...who have no parents there even to provide just food for them.


Teen trouble

here we are at this stage of our lives for most of us.....
have you ever loved only to be hurt?
have you ever did something you will regret for the rest of your life?
are you in love and can't absorb your feelings?
are you lost in this harsh world and can't find the right way to travel in your life?
has a closed one died?

trust me, sweet one...the world has not ended

one thing you must remember is that your feelings are yours to control....someone can say something nasty, but you can smile (even though that's unlikely), or punch the bitch in the face...but your feelings are controlled by yourself. and if something has happened which has made you unhappy or angry, remember not to give up on yourself. if you say you can't, you won't be able to. gather up the hidden courage in you...its there somewhere in your soul. and face your challenges face to face instead of running away. face them, fight them, then forget them. and you can move on with your life.

Jump off the cliff
"It's too high"
Jump off the cliff
"I'll fall"
Jump off the cliff
And he pushed, and he flew

that is just an example for you...that you can achieve anything you set your heart to if you're not afraid to try and believe in yourself.


Final words of encouragement- In Life


there are no limits to what you can do as long as you know the rules in life. always remember that!
love those around you and treat your elders with respect. remember "a stranger is just a friend waiting to happen"....be friendly and happy...never let others get to you because YOUR FEELINGS ARE YOURS TO CONTROL!!! set goals for yourself and do your damnedness to achieve them!

some of my favourite personal quotes are:
in the ladder of life...if you ever fall down, just pull yourself back up and try again until you reach the top....and when you get there, the rewards will be worth all the sacrifice
what do you gain if you win the whole world but lose your soul? be happy for what you've got and make the most of it!!!


Final words of encouragement- In Love


happiness is what you work for!
never take your loved ones for granted...because you will only have ONE lifetime to know them and love them...what you give is what you get. if you don't treat people nicely, you shouldn't expect to receive respect or kindness because you don't deserve it!
life is very short for us.....and not nearly enough to show all those we love that we love them..but take chance with what time you've got and make the people you care about feel loved. it's true that you don't know what you've got until you lose them! your close ones are very dear to you...because one day you will lose them....and then you will ask yourself why you never bothered to tell them that you love them. some people use the excuse that they love someone with their heart and don't have to keep reminding them that they love them....well, you're WRONG! everyone needs to be loved, and everyone deserves just as much!
one day...toss a gold coin to a beggar on the street...or help an old lady cross the road.....the feeling of kindness is very great that it will follow you wherever you go and you will wear a smile for a long time to come. sometimes love starts with a single gesture of kindness.....and you will bring smiles to many people.
for kindness DOES make the world go around.....

dont cry when the sun sets at the end of the day for your tears will not allow you to see the beauty of the stars
God Bless You, for you're loved!
Past on your love to someone now, starting with a single hug or kiss!