If you're under 18, one of the biggest things in your career will be your parents. If your parents are supportive, you're off to a great start. If not, you might have some work to do. Here are some tips for dealing with your parents.
What do I do if my parents don't want me to act or don't take me seriously?
It's a parent's job to be protective of their children, and chances are, they're just trying to protect you from the dark side of Hollywood. They aren't completely off the mark - acting can really take its toll on child actors, so while you may really want to pursue acting, it's also important that you maintain a life outside of acting. Keep non-actor friends, find a non-acting-related hobby, and never equate your worth with how successful you are as an actor. But, with that warning out of the way, it is possible to make things work with your parents.
Here's what I recommend you do if your parents aren't supportive of your career:
Ask your parents to sit down with you for a heart-to-heart talk. Choose a moment when you know they aren't stressed out, tired, or in a bad mood. Sit somewhere quiet and comfy, and be as honest as possible. Prepare yourself by reading as many books as you can and organizing your thoughts before you bring the topic up. Your maturity and knowledge should impress your parents.
It's very possible that even after having a serious talk with your parents, they may still not want you to be an actor. In that case, it's difficult to say what you should do, as it will depend on each person. If you have an older sibling, a friend, or another relative who could drive you to auditions, then perhaps you can get them to help you. If you're able to do things on your own, then perhaps you can pursue acting that way. Otherwise, you may just have to wait until you legally can follow your dreams on your own, although I do hope that everyone's parents will be understanding and open!
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