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Have you ever been with some one who remained busy with eating
something without offering some of it to you?
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Have you ever played with some one who did not like to lend you
any of his game items?
Such persons are self-loving. Self-conceited persons only
think about themselves and they never give any impotents to what others
think or whatever feelings they might have.
When your are
accompanied by a self loving person
-- How do you feel?
-- What do you think?
-- What do you do?
When you play may think playing with such person:
-- Possibly you may be overcome by the feeling of anger and annoyance.
-- Possibly you may think playing with such person is not so very
pleasing.
-- Possibly you may decide not to play with him any more.
It is much important
that you treat others the way you wish them to treat you.
For example if you want others to lend your game items to others.
First of all you must finish your own self-love
Of course, not being self-conceited does not mean that you must
definitely offer every thing you have to other.
For instance you are busy eating something, which is not sufficient
enough to be offered, then only overlook eating that.
All ways try not to eat any thing in front of someone who does not have
any thing to eat.
-- If you intend to divide the foodstuff try to do that justly. This is a
good rule that the person who distributes should take his share after
all the rest of the people.
-- If you wish that others must not play with your private games items,
it is better that you must not play with those in front of your
playmates, but that;
-- Your playmate does not give any importance to playing with them.
-- Your playmate has got others game items to play with.
Of course there is no compulsion that you share your game item with
other since; it is
possible he may loose or put them out of order. So if you think it is
possible that such a thing may happen then better keep your game items
at their own place.
When you lend some one something:
Help
him learn to look after that thing.
Guide him how he can use that thing in a correct way.
Remind him where he can or cannot use that thing.
Like:
If you want to give your friend any thing like tape recorder you must
told him that you can use my tape recorder but before that let me show
you how does it function and additionally any must promise that you
would not carry it to court yard.
If you have just one game item then try to treat you play mates justly
and fairly.
For instance, you must turn for taking advantage from the sport ware.
And try to make the time of each turn equal.
The only of leading the happy life is to treat others in the same way
you wish to be treated by them. It means that you should not practice
self-conceit because you do not wish that your playmates and friend who
play along with you be self-conceited. |
