The Qualities of a Friend



[Ali RadiAllahu anhu]

 

Ali (Radhiallahu anhu) mentioned that the good friend and neighbour has the following qualities:

  • Forgive the shortcomings of the friend

  • Show pity to the friend's difficulties

  • Conceal his shortcomings

  • Overlook his excuses

  • Accept his forgiveness

  • Stop the backbiting spoken of the friend

  • Always be with the friend

  • Protect the friendship

  • Fulfil the needs of the friend

  • Visit him when he is sick

  • When he dies, be present at his Janazah

  • When invited, accept his invitation

  • If he gives a gift, accept it

  • If he does good, then reciprocate accordingly

  • When the friend offers a bounty, then thank him

  • When he needs help then assist him

  • Preserve the honour and respect of your friend and his house

  • Fulfil his needs that accord with Shariáh

  • Accept his intercession if it is according to Shariáh

  • Do not make him despondent in his requests

  • Reply to the friend's sneeze by saying "Yarhmukallahu" if he said 'Alhamdulillah'

  • If anything is lost of the friend, then assist him to look for it

  • Reply to his Salaam

  • Support and praise his good works

  • If one has taken an oath to fulfil something, assist him in accomplishing the oath

  • Assist your friend at all times whether he is an oppressor or oppressed. Assisting him if he is an oppressor is to stop him from oppression.

  • Also communicate with him and not to create animosity.

  • Not to disgrace a friend

  • Not to swear at a friend




 

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