sugarsays

IN DOING THIS SITE I HAVE STARTED SOMETHING I BELIEVE WILL NEVER HAVE AN END.. AT LEAST I HOPE IT DOESN'T..AND IN THIS I FOUND I HAVE ASKED A FEW PEOPLE FOR HELP. WHOS OPINIONS I TRUST AND WHOS THOUGHTS I VALUE, SUCH AS MY DADDY AND MR. E.. AND OF COURSE SOME WHO YOU MAY NEVER HEAR OF WHO ARE FRIENDS AND ENCOURAGING ME BEHIND THE SCENES SO TO SPEAK..BUT ANOTHER ONE OF THESE PEOPLE IS A DEAR AND WONDERFUL FRIEND, AND SUCH A GOOD LIL BRAT SHE IS ( one of the best i dare to say) I HAVE ASKED HER TO HELP ME WITH INSIGHT, INFORMATION AND HER HARD WORK AND FAST TYPING SKILLS.. SHE IS THE LIL SUGAR BRAT :) SO FROM THIS POINT ON THIS IS HER PAGE SHE WILL WRITE EVERYTHING HERE OUT..HER VIEWS HER FEELINGS HER EXPERIENCE AS A REAL LIFE BRAT WILL HOPEFULLY HELP OTHERS IN THE WORLD UNDERSTAND AND DEAL WITH BRATS BETTER AND MOST OF ALL WITH A LOVING FIRM TOUCH.. BEST TO ALL
                                                                  ~angel brat ~

WOW!!!!! What an introduction!! Thank you my sweet Angel! Sometimes in our lives we are lucky enough to encounter people who touch us so deeply that we will be affected forever. Angel is one of these special people. It makes me so happy just to know that I am so highly thought of by you. I owe you a debt of gratitude and you do not even realize the way you have brought my spirit higher with just a word. We have stood by each others side at times of struggle and celebrated each other in times of triumph. Thank you Angel for being there even when you weren't aware you were even helping me. We have laughed together and cried together. You touch me so deeply with your words. It has been my privledge to call you my friend. Thank you for being my friend, my mentor, my confidant, mainly thank you for being.............you!!
Hugssssss and kissessssss for my sweet Angel!!

My own page hmmmmm *evil grin* People are going to actually pay attention to what I have to say. *bats her eyes all humbly* As if I don't get attention. As all brats know we adore attention. Typically if a brat is not getting lots of attention she is not happy. Just ask my Daddy about that one. *snickers* You will find me out and about shaking my rufflies (panties with ruffles on the hiney) or beatin down trolls with Angel.

BRATS

Let me just start this by saying that Brats, although they are a form of a D/s submissive, they are very different from all other types. Brats are, in my opinion, the most entertaining and also the most trying at times. A brat is more like a child than any other form of subbie. And as such you must discipline them as though they were a child. Administering another alternative other than spanking with a subbie is beneficial especially by the old leather laws however it is not always beneficial to use alternatives with a brat, that is the most effective tool at times. Brats have a need that is typically not recognized by the Dom/sub community and as there is not much literature on brats and understanding them, this, I hope will help. A brat will find every trigger or button you possess and do our best to push you to your furthest limits. When using spankings as punishments, even though it can become erotic and sexual, do not let them experience the eroticism that derives from the spanking, it only teaches them they get what they want by misbehaving. Do not allow your brat to flow with the sexuality she so badly desires, this is the reward. We do not want to reward bad behavior with a fulfilled feeling. Your brat does the things she does because she is in need, even if she is unaware of her actions, and she may not think further then right that moment. A spanking for a brat, although at times it can be highly sexually charged, she so badly needs the discipline. If you find that you are sexually aroused from administering punishment, you will need to exert considerable control over yourself so that you do not unwittingly reinforce the wrong behavior. That way the spanking is not the punishment at all in the end the denial of sexual pleasure is the punishment. If your brat gets out of control you will have to struggle to regain control over her. You are setting up the chain of command. Brats will test that chain, and you for that matter, every chance they get. They strive to make you faulter in your job as thier DaddyDom, not because they do not care for you but they have to test their boundaries to feel safe and secure.

sugar you have beyond a doubt proven to be one of the most sweet and caring people i have had the pleasure in getting to know, you have been a wonderful friend helping me through some pretty hard spots, holding me up when i would have other wise fallen, we have cried and laughed together and talked and whined together,we have shared secrets and stood by each other's side i am greatful for all you have so selflessly given to me not only is it a pleasure to call you my friend but an honor i hold close to my heart, you have been loyal and devoted even in times you may not have agreed with me, but your love has been unwaviering thank you for everything but mostly thank you for being who you are ...my friend!

here is more from that lil amazing sugar baby, i believe she has hit on some good things here.. she defines our strengths and our needs quite well here... as submissive women we are strong yet craving to offer ourselves our will, our hearts, minds, souls, body and service to that ONE Special Dominant

(small disclaimer:::::this article is written in sugarspeak and not everyone will understand it but i know those close to me will grasp every word.....Thanks)

As I sit here, I question everything that is real. I question who I am. I question what I am doing here. Am I real? I feel deep in my heart that I am not as I presume to be. I sit at my Master's feet as a subbie. I hop on Daddy's lap as a brat. I hug Daddy close as his babygirl. I walk beside my man as an equal. All these things are a part of me. I know that I am not to be just me. My Master/Daddy/Dom accepts all of me. And handles me accordingly. He loves me. I am a very strong woman, and in that I have the ability to kneel at his feet, cry on his shoulder, show my weaknesses, stand toe to toe with him, make him angry or upset, show him the love I have inside me, and make him weak to my charms. All these things are me. I can show him my strength and have him stand beside me. I can show him my innocence and have him shield me from the world. He supports me in every endeavor. He knows how to let me get away with things when it is called for and he knows when to scold me. I have an amazing DaddyDom. I am loved.