If you've had serious discussions about your
relationship and where it's headed, then you probably already know that
her answer will be 'yes'.
Ring Shopping.
Before you start shopping, find out what she likes. If
she doesn't care about being surprised, then you could even take her out
to pick out the ring with you. Otherwise, ask her friends and family and
pay attention to her likes and dislikes.
The next thing you need to do is study the 4c's. If
you're like most men, you know little about diamonds and what constitutes
a good one. For more information on the 4C's (carat, cut, color, clarity)
for get tips on buying a diamond.
Get the Ring Insured.
After you've selected the ring, the next step is to
insure it. This may seem unnecessary, but if the stone ever falls out of
it's setting, you'll be glad you did it. For a nominal fee you can
generally add jewelry to your home owner's or renter's policy.
Get Her Father's Blessing.
This isn't done much anymore, except possibly in the
south, but it's still a very thoughtful and respectful thing to do. Plus,
it will it strengthen your bond with your future father-in-law. It's as
simple as inviting him out to dinner and let him know that you'd like his
blessing in asking for his daughter's hand in marriage.
Get Creative.
Make your
proposal one to remember! Think creatively
and plan every detail. Pick a location that has special meaning, set the
mood, and make sure to make it special as you'll both remember this day
for the rest of your life. If you're stumped for ideas, check out our
marriage proposal ideas with hundreds of ideas to get the creative juices
flowing.
Down on One Knee.There is nothing more romantic
in this world that seeing the man you love down on one knee asking you to
marry him.
Record the moment.
Get a friend or perhaps even an employee (if you're
proposing at a restaurant or other place of business) help you set up a
video camera or take pictures of the moment. If you plan ahead, you'll
have these mementos to treasure forever.
Get help.
If you're planning a more extravagant proposal, get the
help of a close friend of family member! They can help with details,
getting your girlfriend out (if you need her away to surprise her), or
even throwing her off the trail if she starts to suspect something. Be
careful though because you don't want them to spoil the surprise.
Surprise Her.
Whether she admits to it or not, every woman wants a
romantic surprise proposal. Even is she knows that you're planning on
proposing soon, you can still make the actual time and date a surprise.
Celebrate your Engagement!
After it's official, spend a few moments together just
taking in the excitement. She'll likely want to call her friends and
family to let them know the news, so make sure you have your cell phone
nearby. Enjoy a romantic dinner together, share a bottle of wine, and just
enjoy the moment. If you want to celebrate with your close friends and
family, now is the time to plan that engagement party!
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