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    FOR A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITH A TG SPOUSE
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* READ THE WIVES BILL OF RITES

*COMMUNICATION ( VERY IMPORTANT THAT YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE COMMUNICATE WITH ONE ANOTHER)

*HONESTY ( YOU EACH HAVE TO BE HONEST ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE FEELING AND THINKING EVEN IF IT IS NEGITIVE,  AND MORE IMPORTANTLY BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF HOW DO "I" FEEL ABOUT... AND WHY DO "I" FEEL THIS WAY AND WHAT DO "I" WANT TO DO ABOUT IT)

* BE OPEN AND WILLING TO SHARE

*LISTEN REALLY LISTEN WHEN YOUR PARTNER TALKS TO YOU
*COMPROMISE

*SEEK COUSELING BOTH TOGETHER AND AS A INDIVUAL

*BE PATIENT WITH YOURSELF AND WITH YOUR PARTNER

* NEVER EVER ASSUME ANYTHING, IF YOU WONDER ASK..YOU MAY BE SURPISED BY THE TRUTH

*TAKE IT A DAY AT A TIME A MOMENT AT A TIME IF NECESSARY

* MAKE DECISIONS TOGETHER

*DONT BE HURTFUL WORDS HURT SO THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK