Peace of mind: I think if we carry a grudge, or resent someone, then we are only disturbing our own peace of mind, not theirs. And forgiveness restores our own peace of mind, not theirs. So whether you are harming yourself or healing yourself depends on your attitude towards others.

• A Special Treat
  When I got home from school, I made Daddy some more blueberry muffins, as a treat. They turned out really well. I put two on a plate for him with some nice cheeses and crackers.

I put the plate down on the coffee table in front of him and I said "Here's a special treat for you Daddy!"

He said "Thank you sweetie!"

I said "You deserve it!"

He said "Why?"

So I stood behind his back, (he was sitting in a chair) and I put my arms around his chest and said softly in his ear "You deserve a special treat for making love with me, Daddy!"

Then I added with a smile "You great big he-man, you!

At the end of the day, Daddy and I watched the sunset again, paddling in the water at the beach. I really value the way Daddy and I enjoy spending time alone together. We just sit and talk. He's so romantic, even without trying to be.