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SPIRITUAL INSIGHTS PAGE

Forgiveness


The following flow chart is designed to show how an offended believer should respond to an offending believer.  Believers should also seek peace with non-believers (Matthew 5:25-26).  However, an offending non-believer may not be committed to Biblical principles and so parts of this chart may not apply.  Click here for definitions of some the words in the chart.


     

INCIDENT

 
     

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INFORMAL FORGIVENESS

REVENGE DECISION

For a definition of informal forgiveness, click here.

     

No Revenge

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Revenge

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For a definition of formal forgiveness, click here.

FORMAL FORGIVENESS DECISION

REFUSE TO BESTOW FORGIVENESS

"Follow peace with all men, . . . lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled; . . . [Hebrews 12:14-15]."  See also Genesis 37:4, 11.

   

Start Formal Forgiveness Process

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Refuse Formal Forgiveness

   

BESTOW FORGIVENESS

For a definition of forgiveness, click here.

 
 

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UNCONDITIONAL FORGIVENESS

 

CONDITIONAL FORGIVENESS

Click here for further information.

 

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OFFENDER DOES NOT ASK FOR FORGIVENESS NOR REPENT

For a definition of repentance, click here.

OFFENDER DOES ASK FOR FORGIVENESS AND REPENTS

 

OFFENDER DOES NOT ASK FOR FORGIVENESS NOR REPENT

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OFFENDER DOES NOT MAKE RESTITUTION

For a definition of restitution, click here.

OFFENDER MAKES RESTITUTION

 

OFFENDER DOES NOT MAKE RESTITUTION

If the system crashes and burns (the offender thwarts the attempt to reconcile), just drop the issue (1 Corinthians 6:7b)--though you suffer for doing good (1 Peter 2:20b-25).

“A man who cannot forgive is a poor fellow indeed, for he punishes himself for the sins of others.” -- Charles Spurgeon


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