| How to be sure it's the good way for you |
| How to be sure it's the good way for you?Well , I don't have an exact answer to give but I can help you a bit. Some people said you don't choose your path , the path will choose you.You will discover the pagan way when you will be ready for it.I'm not exactly sure if it's true , but it's different for every people.I will give some clue that must help you. You have to feel comfortable with what you do , this is the most important. Are comfortable to talk of it? Your friend and family have to know in what you believe,if you always have to lie it's not a good beginning. Are you comfortable to talk of this to your family and friend? You have to be ready to live discrimination because you are a pagan,people are very ignorant about it. You can keep the secret for ever,soon or later it will be discover. Do you think to this:if your friend and family don't accept it , what will you do?You have to be very patient. If you live in a small town , you will probably not found other pagan , are you ready to live this alone? Are you sure you have ALL the information?You must be ready to answer to a any kind of questions. If you answer yes to most of the question , maybe your ready but to said it and live it , it's a big difference.If you answer no most of the time , maybe your not ready and you have to meditate and think about it.Maybe you find your way but your not comfortable to talk of it and that's a major problem.You have to know , a lot of people are not ready to learn what is paganism , they don't understand , they are afraid of a thing they don't know and it's just normal.Everyone don't have an open mind and a lot of pagan can tell you they live at least one time discrimination.It's not easy , it take time and a lot of patience.It's specially difficult for pagan which live in a catholic family and don't accept it.I didn't blamed anyone.Everyone have a part of responsability.The only thing you can do it's to be very patient .Meditate on it. |
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