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I'm just a kinda normal, but nice & easy going guy...who's single again! :( Yes...I don't enjoy being all alone in this big bad world ^^ either! :) If a picture tells a thousand words, then look at mine. hmm...I'm of Swiss-Italian / Irish ancestry, and perhaps that has some degree of effect on my desires in a woman...romance / intimacy, companionship, etc...does it? I don't really know. lol "Kinda normal?" Well, I'm kind of intense...but usually in a good way! :) How do I describe what I enjoy in [my] woman? Well, I guess you'll just have to take the necessary steps in order to find out...'cause it could be you! :) There are 6 1/2 billion people on this earth. I know that the one I want to be with is out there...I can wait to find her. So, the ball's in your court. I have no problem going out around town and approaching women who attract my attention. Not that I'm doing such all the time...but it's always a viable option. Although, and pretty much, I'm just spending most of my time at home. However, this site is in by no means whatsoever some kind of priority for me to find my next love...it's actually rather boring! lol But, I'm throwing my hook out, kicking back in my chair, got a magazine and coffee, or popping a beer...I might get a bite today! :)

I've lived in Reno, NV since '95. I relocated here from California. I grew up in the Redwoods, then spent many years in L.A. I've never been sorry for leaving CA. If you live there, and you don't really understand this, well...good luck to you! And please don't ask me anything about it. In short, it's just something you may end up learning the hard way...and you're just going to have to "learn it," like I had to. Quite frankly, I wouldn't mind at all finding someone living there who says to me: OMG...Get me outta here! Sometime later, we're kicking back at Lake Tahoe, and you're so pleased & relieved that I helped you make the decision to leave! That would be a girl I would enjoy being with. Has lived in the big city rat race, and likewise managed to escape it! Well, if it's going to take San Andreas to finally go off with her full fury, then I pity whoever wants to wait that long...It's a certainty! Oh, and BTW, I once had a boss who was a noted So Cal Seismic expert...hmm...had any influence on my decision for leaving? And the "threat" extends all the way up the entire coastline...all the way through Washington state. I wouldn't want to be anywhere near L.A. or SF when the big one hits. Not with the state our National Guard presently is in...remember Katrina & New Orleans? This could turn out being significantly worse. Well, this all ties together: A woman who sees this world as I. She doesn't utilize cell phones, etc., as some manner of life support system. She doesn't drive like an idiot. She isn't mean! She may want to have a child...but can live without one, too. She also realizes that Dec. 8, 1980 was a very sad day, and what occurred that night has had a dramatic effect on the world to this day. She clicks with me, we truly love each other, and expect that to last until old age and death. I'm not a perfect man...anyone who pretends to be has mother issues! I like to go to a casino, sit at the bar and probably drink a few too many beers & maybe smoke, and more often than not then lose back most of anything I may win! haha You may be off playing your fav machine on the other end of the casino. We eventually leave (maybe with a bunch of money!) I toss you the keys...and we go home. Other times we may spend a couple of nights in Vegas, or South Shore...maybe even take a run to Laughlin. We're basically happy & carefree soul mates...but sensible ones. And, I want to have a good life insurance policy, so if that happens sooner rather than later...you'll be comfortable. A more laid back life together in this "Biggest Little City in the World" of 400k. You may have to pull up roots, and start over in your career...but you're willing to endure that -- and realize the obvious benefit. You might make considerably more than I...but you're cool with it. But I have a permanent monthly income, and full medical coverage for myself. We can probably together afford to buy a house (Now is a golden time to get on this!) and it'll be nice...a garden, some fruit trees, your joy for decorating your home; couple of dogs & cats, some nice friends, BBQ's...a nice, quiet, laid back and as stress-free of a life as possible. And if all goes well, maybe some nice trips around the world, too. Real and Total Love...Nothing Less!

Throughout my nearly half century of life, I've know people with "degrees," yet who seemingly are very dumb people.  Perhaps I would even go as far as to view some of their Professors as really dumb people! haha  My father & uncle both volunteered for, and served in WW2.  My dad fought the Germans, and endured / survived some quite remarkable experiences.  My uncle was a naval officer in the Pacific, and similarly went through a lot...he never talked much about it, and passed away in '98.  My dad died in 1982.  He was one of the most intelligent people I've ever known...it was suggested that he possessed an IQ in excess of 140.  His only brother (my uncle) graduated 2nd in his class at Annapolis, and such was given a nice write-up in a leading Bay Area newspaper.  My dad owned his own business (a billiard parlor) and did his best to provide for us...but in 1973 he suffered a stroke, and that changed everything.  But I can still remember the days when I was hanging around the pool hall with him.  He would be watching the "old" Jeopardy game show, and it was nothing but astonishing to hear him answer questions!  He would also do the New York Times crossword puzzle in Pen!  In short, I basically spent many of my earlier years around older men; and men of what Tom Brokaw calls "The Best Generation."  I dearly miss them...I'm sure that they're all now dead.  [They] helped build my foundation...my character.  But growing up through the '60's & '70's was both good, and difficult.  We were relatively poor, and my mother was gone when I was only 3.  My dad's mom was already with us, and basically assumed the role as mother for my brother and I.  But she died when I was 13, and shortly following my dad's stroke.  Besides losing my mother, all of this hurt me...perhaps much more than I was able to understand until years later.  My brother is 6 1/2 years older than me.  This age difference was very hard to live with in that era.  He was somewhat of a high school sports star.  He played on the '71-'72 junior & senior varsity football teams, and they had one of the all time best records for that high school, like only 1 loss in that 2 seasons...it made somewhat big news pretty much throughout California!  Wow!  What a legacy for a 11-13 year old little brother to live up to!  But my brother also possessed a rather evil side.  There was some abuse I received from him, and that was not good for me.  So, and after all things considered for the times, I wasn't exactly a scholar in school.  Although, I did pay attention a lot, and seemingly developed some good use of English...at least! haha  Moreover, I guess that I must have derived [something] from my dad & uncle's genetic makeup, so to speak.  Blah Blah Blah...it's all about You, huh?!  No, not really...and I really despise narcistic, self-centered, selfish, arrogant, shallow, etc. people!  Yeah...I despise Californians!  Basically why I wouldn't mind finding a woman from L.A. who's sick of all of it, and wants out!  But she has that foundation, that "cultured" mentality...yet not exactly a NYC sophistication.  In other parts of this I alluded to some of it.  In short, she doesn't have that arrogance, or mean streak.  When we're out in the car, driving down the freeway, and see the typical car with California plates -- speeding & tailgating, the driver with a phone impaled in their head, and this look of total murderous impatience, anxiety, hatred, anger and utter disdain for all of the rest of Humanity on their face, we laugh!  Thank God we're not one of [them] anymore! lol  ^^ OMG!  get me Outta Here...Please!  George...you're so right!  I'm packing my bags...and Reno Bound! :)

Well, and to be honest, if you're Asian (and petite...to somewhat) you may end up being in the bottom of the 9th, 2 outs, and ahead by 4 runs! haha...if you don't understand baseball...it means you're about to for certain win the game! :) Could some Caucasian woman, etc., load the bases, and become a major threat to that Asian woman? Perhaps. But she may have to hit a grand slam in order to tie the game...then battle it out to the end ^^ and it could get ugly!! meoooooow! hiss! :)

Finally, can I truly be happy with someone else? I don't know. I've already several times tasted this fruit of another tree, and it has an ultra-dynamic affect on me; intoxicating, hypnotic, compelling, captivating...lest should I even dare to defy my heart's true passion. If you've read this far, then you should be made aware that my Title contains a special message. If you're so inclined, then You Tube it, and if our stars are in the perfect position, you may discover the message, or break the code...had to at least make this a little fun! :)

 

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I don't think it matters where someone lives, what their "education level" is, or their ethnicity, etc. I firmly believe that this explosive growth of (same-gender attraction) is greatly attributed to the remarkably negative (and down right hateful) attitudes of people nowadays. The world is virtually in all sorts of chaos...even its "highest order" creatures seemingly are losing their (per God) attraction & compatibility towards one another. Do I blame women, and their exodus towards the right, liberalism, etc? Mostly.