"Finding Yourself Without Paying Through The Nose"This website is created in honor of my parents and Russ Walter (see Computer ) and my future spouse (whoever she may be. See ice breaker speech given at three different Toastmaster International public speaking club meetings). Answer the following questions: Why do you have to learn to like yourself? What do people mean when they say "Be yourself"? "Find yourself"? What do people mean when they say "listen to yourself"? What do people mean when they say "respect yourself"? What do people mean when they say "trust your instinct"? What do people mean when they say "trust your instinct and don't listen to your feelings" ? What do people mean by "flexibility"? Why some people seem to learn faster in class when you just don't get it? (No, you are not stupid) Do you know why you often make the wrong decisions because you have overlooked some assumptions? Why some people just don't like you? How can you tell who likes you and will almost always give you the benefit of the doubt? (Let me warn you: knowing this will not increase your self-esteem). What makes a person charismatic? What makes a person a "born" leader?
If you are a person who has problems saying no. If you want to know what to do to have more self-esteem and self-confidence and self-respect but don't know how. If you feel that you don't get acceptance and respect from your peers and others around you, no matter how hard you try. If you feel that there must be something you can do to change these without going to expensive self-improvement seminars or subscribing to the latest self improvement fad. If you feel that there must be someone out there who understands how to get to where you want to go in terms of feeling more confident, having higher self esteem, and finding yourself, without costing an arm and a leg, in the shortest practical time possible. You have come to the right place. Here you would not find information about religion, politics, supernatural skills, new age thinking, and abortion. This website is created with one particular type of person in mind: that shy, utterly confused person who lacks self esteem and self confidence and self identity because s/he has had a controlling, sarcastic , negative thinking, emotionally abusive parent(s) or guardian(s) ; that person who is having problems finding acceptance and respect among people around them. I am confident this means most of you out there; who doesn't want to know how to get more acceptance and respect from other people ? I want to share what worked for me, in the hope that I can also learn from you. Somebody has got to create this website. Why not me? THE SKILLS THAT ARE VITALLY IMPORTANT: Thinking (reasoning, critical thinking), research, writing, speaking (articulate), listening, reading, positive thinking, sense of humor, computer, time management, money management. THE VALUES THAT ARE IMPORTANT: Having a great attitude, courage, honesty, integrity, giving 100%, flexibility, generosity, conscientious, positive reinforcement, self discipline, fairness. PERSONAL FEELINGS IN CREATING THIS WEBSITE DOWNLOAD THE WHOLE WEBSITE IN MICROSOFT WORD FORMAT How to contact me: seekoneself@yahoo.com by Lawrence Tan, 1st edition. |