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Back to school!! Oh No!! This is usually the cry that can
be heard from children when September rolls in. This is not
always the case for the parents! Well, whether you're happy
or sad about school starting, it does happen, no matter
what. With school starting, also comes the frustration for
both parents and children of how to manage all the changes
of adapting to the new school routine. Some children love
the structure and routines that come with school, while
others miss the freedom of being care-free for the Summer.
For those children, setting up regular nightly homework
routines is like having a tooth pulled at the dentist - not
fun! This is when power struggles begin between the parent
and their child. Once again, how you go about setting up
those morning and nightly routines is so-o-o important. It
can make all the difference for you the parent.
Helpful Tips for Parents:
. Initially, you may want your child to get up a half an
hour earlier until he/she has adjusted to the morning
routine - this will reduce your child's stress level and
yours as well.
. Establish a place by the door to place the backpack,
lunch box, library books, etc., so your child will be able
to find everything needed quickly on leaving for school each
morning.
. You might like to tape a few picture reminders there
i.e.. eyeglasses, pencil case, notes for teacher, etc.
. Establish a set time for homework to begin - it
is best to have your child relax and have a snack when
he/she arrives home from school before beginning
homework.
. Designate a specific area for homework to be completed
- make sure all the materials are kept in a box there, this
eliminates frequent "ups and downs" to find items
needed.
. It may be helpful to have your child near by so you can
answer questions on work he/she is confused about. It also
helps you to redirect back to the task if "daydreaming".
. You may want to shut off the TV until all work is
finished - this may be a little inconvenient but it will pay
off in the long run.
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