OUR SON DUSTIN
FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS
 
 
Dec. 7, 1978 - October 24, 1997

 
 
  
DUSTIN'S STORY
 
On Dec. 7, 1978, a wonderful miracle from  God came into my life. My son, Dustin, 
was born. My doctor had told me  that I probably would never be able to have 
children, but here I was  standing and looking on the most beautiful child I had ever 
seen. A day  later, my doctor came in and told me Dustin had a blood clot lying on 
his brain, and that he didn't know if he would live. NO, Please God, let Dustin live. 
He was in intensive care for two weeks, but he was strong  and God caused another 
miracle to happen, and the blood clot dissolved,  and I brought my beautiful baby 
home. My doctor said Dustin could have  complications later on, but he never did. He developed perfectly, was smart, so talented, a wonderful Christian young man. He 
graduated from  high school with honors in May, 1997, and was attending his first 
year  of college. On a dark, rainy night in October, Dustin, our other son,  Matt, and 
a friend were headed to a high school football game, when! Dustin slid on a bend, and ran off the road. He died instantly, and part of me died instantly too. The road of 
grief has been the most difficult journey that I believe anyone could travel. Losing a 
child has to be the ultimate loss. He had so very much to give, so much love, so much talent, so much time, we thought. God, family, and friends are the only reasons 
we can go on. I know Dustin is in Heaven, but knowing this  doesn't make me miss 
him any less. I know someday I will hold him in my arms again, and look into his 
handsome face, and never be parted again.  Dustin will be forever in our hearts. We 
love him and miss him so much.

 
 
 
  
 
Dustin with his curls

 
 
  
 
Dustin doing what he loved best.

 
 
 
  
 
Dustin on his graduation night, May, 1977

 
 
 
The following is taken from Psalms of Lament, by Ann Weems, written after the death of  her 21 year old son, Todd. A portion of Lament Psalm Nine. 

 
I wrestle to hold onto
the deep places
of my inner being.
My soul is in danger.
Save me,
O God,
save me.

Consider my weeping,
O Holy One,
be tenderhearted
when you speak 
to me.
Handle my bruised heart,
with gentleness,
for without you,
I am nothing.


And Christ said, "Blessed are those who Mourn, for they Shall be comforted." Matt. 5:4.

 
  
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