Aries: Lesbian Women:
Birth: March 21-April 20
Element: Fire
Quality: Assertive, Positive
Planetary Ruler: Mars
Color: Red
Day: Sunday
Stone: Diamond, Amethyst
Flower: Carnation
Sybol: The Ram
Aries is the sign of independence. There is a sense of always being alone. They feel being alone has always offered a chance of pure self-focus, even when involved in a relationship. They like to watch themselves grow. An Aries woman likes to share her insights about herself with others. Therefore, her friends are of utmost importance when she is single. But, no matter how many friends she has, the most important thing for an Aries is independence and freedom. Ultimately, she knows she must rely on herself.
The Aries woman needs to build a strong inner center. Behind the appearance of aggressive self-strength there often lurks deep vulnerability and self-doubt. ONce inner doubts are quenched, there is no stopping an Aries woman. When she knows who she is and what she wants, nothing can stand in her way.
The most important quality for an Aries woman is self-confidence. Usually, other women believe that Aries women are more self-confident than they actually feel inside. Often what looks like self-confidence is actually bravado. It is a facade. To develop true self-confidence, the Aries woman needs to honestly evaluate from where her self-doubts spring. Inside she may feel like a child who doesn't measure up to her parents' expectations. When she conquers these deep-set doubts she will have a true sense of self-esteem. Her initiative and daring will spring from a sense of inner clarity. What stops an Aries woman is not fear, it is lack of faith in her own personal strength.
They crave perfection and uniqueness, but remember that they need to work hard for these attributes. That means taking one issue at a time, dealing with it, then letting it go. They mustn't let go too fast. An Aries is very good at startings and beginning, but has trouble with completion. Perseverance is something they need to learn. Their methods of self-discovery are very fast, and without tunnel vision they will discover that it's the pursuit of self that's more worthy of their attention than the goal of mastery.
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