The Aries/Pisces combination brings together two very different women, but this match often works out better than might be expected. The Aries woman is a strong, assertive individual. The Pisces woman is the epitome of softness and sensitivity. These two women can complement each other OR the two may fail to find any ground for common understanding. Whichever way it works in this case has much to do with the two individual women. Optimally, the Pisces woman will find her Aries partner's initiative and forcefulness invigorating. The Pisces tendency to drive at times in a nebulous confusion will be counteracted by the Aries ability to take matters vigoroously in hand and give direction to Piscean unfocused energy, and the blunt, abrasive edge of the Aries personality will be softened by the Piscean woman's compassionate sensitivity. Pisces' all-accepting tolerance can be a valuable lesson for the Aries woman who is often indignant and bewildered by life's injustices. Aries' ability to challenge the status quo and stand up for one's rights will show the Pisces woman an alternative to playing the martyr.
Actually, these two women have more in common than might otherwise appear. Both Pisces and Aries bring to the relationship a deep and awe-filled sense of the mysterious dimensions of life, an experience that can be overwhelming. The approach of these two women to this experience will be very different, however. The Pisces woman tends to feel a part of this overwhelming universe, and drifts with the ebb and flow of life; the Aries woman feels the urge to combat anything that might submerge her independent identity even if it means fighting the whole universe. She feels she must assert her individuality against the flow of life. But beyond these two different approaches, both women feel a deeper link -- the link of their common vulnerability. For this reason, in spite of all their differences, these two women are capable of an amazing spiritual and emotional rapport.
Beneath their differences, the Pisces woman's heart will be touched by her Aries partner's surprising sensitivity. The Aries woman may feel more free to let down her guard and reveal her innermost feelings with her Pisces partner. Of course, even at best these two women could have problems. The Aries at times may run roughshod over her Pisces partner's delicate feelings -- and not even know it. The Pisces woman's indecisiveness might at times exasperate her Aries partner. But if there is sufficient desire to overcome these problems, a very satisfying relationship is possible between these two women. Sexually, they can have a very good connection, especially if the psychic link has been developed. If not, their approach to lovemaking may be too different: the Aries woman may be too insensitive, the Pisces woman too diffident.
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